Monday, January 13, 2014

crossing a line?

Dress up is obviously a staple in this house.  As much as K. loves his spiderman, fireman, construction worker. etc.  A. loves her cinderella, hairdresser, bride, and monkey.  Sometimes they come in with them all mixed up and we have to "introduce" the dancing monkey or the hair cutting bride.  Well, this week, I felt like dress up went to an all new level.  A. wanted to play Cinderella.  But, she wanted to be Cinderella before she met the prince.  OK, we found a dress, apron, and babushka.  Then she asked for chores.  Well, this is the best game ever!!!  So, I asked her to fold the laundry.

"No Mommy, the step mother yells at Cinderella."

Let me get this straight.  I"m supposed to yell and then my house gets cleaned.  Weird or normal?


"What's next Step mother?" , asks Cinderella/ A.
"UUMMMM, maybe fold the clothes".  Each time I would pause because is this too good to be true or awful because I'm yelling over and over at my child by her choice.


After sewing an old shirt she got tired of playing.  I still can't decide if I'm happy or sad that it's over.  Kids are weird, or maybe just my kids.

Friday, January 10, 2014

introducing....

K. is going through a phase where he only wants to wear pajamas.  He reluctantly puts on clothes for daycare but then changes into pajamas as soon as he walks in our door.

Sometimes, more than 1 pair of pajamas at the same time.

Then, he goes and stands at the top of the stairs.  He yells, "MOM." "MOMMA" "MOMMY" until I say, "introducing K., the pajama boy." Then, with a huge smile on his face,  he runs down the stairs, says, "Tadaa.", and goes on with his day.

The only exception is for spiderman.  My boy got a Spiderman costume for Christmas (thanks to the 70% off after Halloween sales).  Once he opened the costume, he immediately took off his "Christmas Boy" and but on his Spiderman.  Then, he ate his Christmas dinner in the costume, played for the rest of the day in the costume, played the next day in the costume, etc. etc.  It has reached a point now where spiderman and pajama boy are both a part of our daily routine.


spiderman at the dentist

spiderman and his pal cinderella


The cons of this new found wierdness are 1) that I have to keep track because when he gets in his pajamas early it throws off my routine; I found last week that I embarrassingly forgot to bathe him for 3 nights because he was already ready for bed.   2) I'm not allowed to call him by his name, only pajama boy or spiderman so half the time he doesn't come when he is called and he has a built in excuse

The pro 1) my boy can now put on his own pants because I refuse to keep dressing and redressing him.  It makes this OT proud.!